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You’re Not a Pole Dancer, Dear

In honor of Father’s Day I wanted to write a little something in praise of my own dad.

It’s kind of a story within a story, so bear with me – it has a great ending. šŸ™‚

Before I begin though, you need to know one thing.

I do not go anywhere – and I am not even kidding when I say anywhere (aka to the gym, on a walk, to the grocery store, even just to the gas station to fill up the tank) – I do not go ANYWHERE without wearing glitter.

I buy little pots of loose glitter at Claire’s for a couple of bucks and then every morning after I wash my face, I pour dab a truckload bit on my eyelids, under my eyes, and all over my chest.

I love wearing glitter.

Here are my reasons.

  1. It’s fun.
  2. It’s magical.
  3. When I was teaching it helped my students keep their eyes on me.
  4. It’s fun.
  5. When I see kids at the mall or grocery store they think I am a fairy and can’t stop staring at me and I kind of like the attention.
  6. Since becoming a mom I don’t get to shower as much as I used to so I find that people are so distracted looking at my glitter that they don’t see my oily hair.
  7. It’s fun.

Now you’re ready for the story…

About 6 years ago when the Happy Hubby and I were in our season of infertility and countless doctor visits to find out what might be wrong, one particular doctor made a comment that has stayed with me ever since.

Partly because it’s so funny, partly because it is absolutely ridiculous, and partly because I am reminded of it daily whenever I look in the mirror.

I was sitting in the doctor’s office and he was asking me all kinds of standard questions about my health and I was giving him all kinds of answers that weren’t helping him to diagnose our problem.

Finally, he put his pen down and asked his nurse’s assistant to close his office door.

I started to get nervous at that point.

When the door was closed and an uncomfortable silence hung in the air, the doctor leaned toward me and asked very seriously:

“Are you a stripper?”

My jaw literally fell to the floor.

He continued:

“Or perhaps a pole dancer?”

“What makes you think that, Doctor?” I asked totally shocked.Ā  I glanced down at my outfit to see if I was wearing anything scandalous (I wasn’t.Ā  A turtleneck and loose-fitting khakis).

He peered at me over his thick-rimmed glasses, “You are wearing a lot of glitter.”

My hands flew up to my face.

That was it?Ā  Glitter=stripper?

Is this what everyone else was thinking when they saw me?

Well, I was not and am not a stripper or a pole dancer, I just really like sparkling (see detailed reasons above).

We didn’t go back to that doctor again.

Fast forward 6 years…

The Happy Buddy and I were out to lunch with my mom and dad.

The Happy Buddy was throwing french fries and ketchup around the room while my parents and I chatted about life and other things.

Out of the corner of my eye I kept noticing an older man staring at me from his booth in the restaurant.

I mentioned it to my parents and said, “He probably thinks I am a pole dancer.”

My dad’s eyes nearly popped out of his head, “A what?!”

I proceeded to tell my dad the whole story about what the doctor had said to me that fateful day in his office.

When the story was finished my dad looked at me with all the joy and pride only a daddy can muster and he said very confidently:

“You’re not a pole dancer, dear.Ā  You are a princess.”

šŸ™‚

Thank you, Dad, for the last 28 years of feeling like a princess.

I love you.

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Julie Brasington is a Preschool Director, wife of a South Florida Worship Pastor and mom of 3 boys. She writes at Happy Home Fairy where you can find easy craft ideas, FREE printables, simple recipes, holiday fun, thoughts on raising kids, and encouragement for moms.

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  1. Jaimee

    June 18, 2011 at 7:55 am

    What a hilarious and very sweet story : D

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  2. Katie

    June 18, 2011 at 8:28 am

    Julie – you are HILARIOUS!!! I love you!

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  3. Abigail

    June 18, 2011 at 9:13 am

    That was GREAT! I laughed and got teared up at the sweet daddy love šŸ™‚

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  4. Laura

    June 18, 2011 at 10:42 am

    How sweet — and how very like your daddy! I can just hear him saying that!

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  5. Jamie

    June 18, 2011 at 12:33 pm

    What a fabulous daddy and hysterical story! It makes me want to wear glitter – not because I’m a stripper/pole dancer but because I want to look like a princess, too.

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  6. Caterina

    June 18, 2011 at 3:02 pm

    I laughed and then cried. So sweet!

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    • Cynthia Solomom

      October 11, 2012 at 7:16 pm

      Me too!!! This is the sweetest story ever!! What a blessing to have such a sweet memory!!

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  7. Barb W

    June 19, 2011 at 3:30 pm

    What a funny but beautiful story….thank you for sharing….

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  8. Connie

    June 26, 2011 at 3:50 pm

    I just wanted to let you know that I stumbled across your blog today and I can honestly tell you I have never smiled, laughed (pole dancer) and cried (father’s day video) so much while looking at a blog. I have really enjoyed it!!

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  9. Sheila

    October 18, 2014 at 11:02 pm

    THIS IS HILARIOUS!!!! My husband is really into fishing and his lures have glitter on them (apparently glitter attracts fish- who knew!) anyway sometimes I see glitter on his hands or face we have a running joke (that never seems to get old) where I ask him if he has been at the strip club again….. luckily he is always just prepping for his next fishing trip!

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  10. brianajgutierrez

    July 8, 2015 at 11:06 pm

    Ohhhhhhhhhh my happy fairy!!!!!
    This was just hilarious!
    Great story– thank you for sharing!
    How I love you princess!!!

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    • Happy Home Fairy

      July 9, 2015 at 11:39 pm

      Brie – HAHAHAHA, I know, right?!?! What a CRAZY story! I mean, what was he thinking?! LOL! Love you, sister!

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  11. Pat

    May 28, 2019 at 11:29 am

    Love this story about you and your dad. The comment about you being is a princess (which you are) is just like John. Pole dancer, not you!!!!!!

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The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. 

It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends.

These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth!

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You are strong, creative, full of integrity, purity, wit, fun, wisdom, care, responsibility, discernment, intelligence, and love. We could not be more proud of you!!! ā¤ļøšŸ§”šŸ’›

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I’m drawn to passages that describe the fruit of a person who loves and trusts God. This is what we are offered every single day in Christ! But I definitely don’t *feel* fruitful, steady, and confident every single day! I am often tossed around by my circumstances, ruled by my emotions, distracted by worldly pleasures, and basically overthinking everything in the universe.

Interesting that the verses just before it say,

ā€œCursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength…he shall not see when good comesā€¦ā€

Maybe we get so focused on what everyone around us has or is doing that we miss standing confident on all the good he is sending into our own lives. We grasp at ā€œif onlysā€ and ā€œwhat ifsā€ so regularly that we are paralyzed to see good or do any good for Him.

Put your hope in God! Look at Him! Command your soul to remember. Stop scrolling. Look your people in the eye. Do something kind for someone! Choose to not be the main character! Tell the overthinking part of your brain to be quiet and thank God instead. Even when it is hard! Deep roots are never formed without some struggle.

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It’s weird to see everything empty, but if there’s one thing I have learned, it is that home is where your mom and dad are! It has little to do with spaces and decor and everything to do with hearts and spirits. 

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I’m grateful they won’t be too far away. And they are already planning to come back for a visit in 2 weeks. šŸ˜‚ 

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I am not a perfect mom. Most days I’m tired and feel like I am failing. 

But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever!

If I had to stand on one thing in motherhood it would be that I am certainly not enough, but Jesus is.  He is filling in every gap. He is meeting every need I don’t. He is working and moving in spite of me. Praise God for that amazing grace! And He loves that I keep showing up and needing Him. He loves that I seek His face always. Even when I’m being fussy and wrestling with the parts of me that are selfish and wanting.

Because God is my shepherd - I won’t be wanting. I won’t be wanting to have the perfect home or perfect circumstances. May the Lord find me wanting and hungry for more of Him in my mothering. I hope they will see that hunger more than my hunger for fries. And I pray they will learn to hunger for Him, too. 

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This morning we woke up early for Easter service rehearsal. But one kiddo wouldn’t get out of bed, one kiddo was crying about having to wear a collared shirt, one experimented with some Easter basket goodies in the bathroom without my knowledge and there was a strange purple substance all over everything just as we really needed to get out the door, and one was dealing with an upset stomach the whole drive to church.

Meanwhile I’m yelling at everyone to JUST BE HAPPY BECAUSE JESUS IS RISEN!!!!!

I wish it hadn’t taken me this long in motherhood to learn that the chaos and mess and poop emergencies are the real stuff of life. You can wallow in the badness of it all on such a special morning, or you can remember that all the crazy is really why He came to do what He did. To offer PEACE in the chaos, JOY in the mess, a steady heart when someone’s about to have an accident in the car in their Easter outfit (that they hate anyways). 

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My favorite thing that Ryan said during the ceremony was that God made Adam wait for Eve. He paraded all the Mr. and Mrs. animals in front of him long enough until Adam’s longing matched God’s good gift. The timing was then right, Adam was ready to fully appreciate and treasure his Mrs. ā€œManā€.

To be honest, I almost didn’t attend the wedding with Ryan! I wasn’t feeling great and the idea of being home without kids all day to catch up on cleaning and laundry was pretty appealing. But the little nudge in me said DO NOT MISS THIS. I wanted to hear Ryan’s message and watch him lead this precious couple’s ceremony. I knew it was important to him that I be there. So because I treasure him, I went.

And I wasn’t the only one treasuring today! Ryan thanked me for coming with him, he danced with me even though I knew he would rather die than be on the dance floor, and he let me run into the store on the way home to end the day with some chocolate.

So here’s to treasuring one another - looking first to your spouse’s interests before your own, being their biggest fan, and telling them they look super hot in the fancy suit.

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Galatians 5:13 says, ā€œFor you were calledĀ to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunityĀ for the flesh, but serve one another through love.ā€

The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. 

It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends.

These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth!

Happy Birthday America! 🄳

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Galatians 5:13 says, ā€œFor you were calledĀ to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunityĀ for the flesh, but serve one another through love.ā€

The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. 

It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends.

These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth!

Happy Birthday America! 🄳

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Galatians 5:13 says, ā€œFor you were calledĀ to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunityĀ for the flesh, but serve one another through love.ā€

The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. 

It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends.

These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth!

Happy Birthday America! 🄳

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Galatians 5:13 says, ā€œFor you were calledĀ to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunityĀ for the flesh, but serve one another through love.ā€

The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. 

It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends.

These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth!

Happy Birthday America! 🄳

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ā¤ļøšŸ¤šŸ’™Favorite day!šŸ’™šŸ¤ā¤ļø

Galatians 5:13 says, ā€œFor you were calledĀ to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunityĀ for the flesh, but serve one another through love.ā€

The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. 

It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends.

These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth!

Happy Birthday America! 🄳

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Galatians 5:13 says, ā€œFor you were calledĀ to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunityĀ for the flesh, but serve one another through love.ā€

The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. 

It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends.

These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth!

Happy Birthday America! 🄳

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Galatians 5:13 says, ā€œFor you were calledĀ to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunityĀ for the flesh, but serve one another through love.ā€

The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. 

It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends.

These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth!

Happy Birthday America! 🄳

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ā¤ļøšŸ¤šŸ’™Favorite day!šŸ’™šŸ¤ā¤ļø

Galatians 5:13 says, ā€œFor you were calledĀ to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunityĀ for the flesh, but serve one another through love.ā€

The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. 

It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends.

These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth!

Happy Birthday America! 🄳

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ā¤ļøšŸ¤šŸ’™Favorite day!šŸ’™šŸ¤ā¤ļø Galatians 5:13 says, ā€œFor you were calledĀ to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunityĀ for the flesh, but serve one another through love.ā€ The Lord gave us some helpful instructions on freedom and we are very much in need of them! May we set our gaze not on division and fighting, but on asking God how we can be a part of the solution - small, faithful acts of Spirit-led love every day to the people in our world. It is here in America where we can freely and confidently respond to Zion’s request to gather as a family in the living room to pray for the leg pains he has been having. We can bake muffins in our kitchens, leave surprises at someone’s doorstep, share a Bible verse with the grocery store employee, and worship on Sunday with friends. These freedoms were purchased at a great cost, as many chose to lay down their lives in an ultimate act of love. May we remember. And may that remembering lead us right back to Galatians 5:13 and Jesus’ ultimate act of love. This holy inspiration is what we need to rise each day in humble gratitude for freedom in Christ to pour out, serve, and build His kingdom here on earth! Happy Birthday America! 🄳 šŸ‡ŗšŸ‡øšŸ§ØšŸŒ­šŸ‡ŗšŸ‡øšŸ§ØšŸŒ­
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šŸŽ‰ NOAH is 16! šŸŽ‰

Writing this while you are playing a game of hockey with your little brothers in the living room - because you are awesome and love making your little brothers happy. You are commentating the entire game, complete with buzzer sound effects and crowd cheers. šŸ„…šŸ’šŸ“£

Moving to a new school this year was not easy. We had some hard times, some big disappointments, some dreams crushed… but you didn’t give up. You kept showing up, believing good is always on the way in God’s plans. And sure enough, you’ve made some new friends, discovered a new passion for running, gave it your all, and even rocked a mullet. šŸ˜…

You are strong, creative, full of integrity, purity, wit, fun, wisdom, care, responsibility, discernment, intelligence, and love. We could not be more proud of you!!! ā¤ļøšŸ§”šŸ’›

Happiest of birthdays, bruh! šŸ˜Ž
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šŸŽ‰ NOAH is 16! šŸŽ‰ Writing this while you are playing a game of hockey with your little brothers in the living room - because you are awesome and love making your little brothers happy. You are commentating the entire game, complete with buzzer sound effects and crowd cheers. šŸ„…šŸ’šŸ“£ Moving to a new school this year was not easy. We had some hard times, some big disappointments, some dreams crushed… but you didn’t give up. You kept showing up, believing good is always on the way in God’s plans. And sure enough, you’ve made some new friends, discovered a new passion for running, gave it your all, and even rocked a mullet. šŸ˜… You are strong, creative, full of integrity, purity, wit, fun, wisdom, care, responsibility, discernment, intelligence, and love. We could not be more proud of you!!! ā¤ļøšŸ§”šŸ’› Happiest of birthdays, bruh! šŸ˜Ž
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Just really grateful that everyone is smiling! We love you, Hollywood Beach! ā˜€ļøšŸŒŠšŸŒ“
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Just really grateful that everyone is smiling! We love you, Hollywood Beach! ā˜€ļøšŸŒŠšŸŒ“
3 weeks ago
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This passage really encouraged me recently! It comes from Jeremiah 17:7-8. I’m drawn to passages that describe the fruit of a person who loves and trusts God. This is what we are offered every single day in Christ! But I definitely don’t *feel* fruitful, steady, and confident every single day! I am often tossed around by my circumstances, ruled by my emotions, distracted by worldly pleasures, and basically overthinking everything in the universe. Interesting that the verses just before it say, ā€œCursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength…he shall not see when good comesā€¦ā€ Maybe we get so focused on what everyone around us has or is doing that we miss standing confident on all the good he is sending into our own lives. We grasp at ā€œif onlysā€ and ā€œwhat ifsā€ so regularly that we are paralyzed to see good or do any good for Him. Put your hope in God! Look at Him! Command your soul to remember. Stop scrolling. Look your people in the eye. Do something kind for someone! Choose to not be the main character! Tell the overthinking part of your brain to be quiet and thank God instead. Even when it is hard! Deep roots are never formed without some struggle. This is where we get to be blessed, sisters. Trusting in Jesus (even when it looks a little desperate and needy) will produce strong, fruitful, and confident women in the Lord! šŸ’›šŸ§”ā¤ļøšŸ’™šŸ©µšŸ’š
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My parents are moving. 😢

The last 2 weeks have been so sweet. Just soaking up time together… in their home… for the last time. 

It’s weird to see everything empty, but if there’s one thing I have learned, it is that home is where your mom and dad are! It has little to do with spaces and decor and everything to do with hearts and spirits. 

May we all create homes of love and light and warmth. ✨It travels with you wherever you have to go.✨

I’m grateful they won’t be too far away. And they are already planning to come back for a visit in 2 weeks. šŸ˜‚ 

Love you so much, Mom and Dad. You are forever my home! ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹
My parents are moving. 😢

The last 2 weeks have been so sweet. Just soaking up time together… in their home… for the last time. 

It’s weird to see everything empty, but if there’s one thing I have learned, it is that home is where your mom and dad are! It has little to do with spaces and decor and everything to do with hearts and spirits. 

May we all create homes of love and light and warmth. ✨It travels with you wherever you have to go.✨

I’m grateful they won’t be too far away. And they are already planning to come back for a visit in 2 weeks. šŸ˜‚ 

Love you so much, Mom and Dad. You are forever my home! ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹
My parents are moving. 😢

The last 2 weeks have been so sweet. Just soaking up time together… in their home… for the last time. 

It’s weird to see everything empty, but if there’s one thing I have learned, it is that home is where your mom and dad are! It has little to do with spaces and decor and everything to do with hearts and spirits. 

May we all create homes of love and light and warmth. ✨It travels with you wherever you have to go.✨

I’m grateful they won’t be too far away. And they are already planning to come back for a visit in 2 weeks. šŸ˜‚ 

Love you so much, Mom and Dad. You are forever my home! ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹
My parents are moving. 😢

The last 2 weeks have been so sweet. Just soaking up time together… in their home… for the last time. 

It’s weird to see everything empty, but if there’s one thing I have learned, it is that home is where your mom and dad are! It has little to do with spaces and decor and everything to do with hearts and spirits. 

May we all create homes of love and light and warmth. ✨It travels with you wherever you have to go.✨

I’m grateful they won’t be too far away. And they are already planning to come back for a visit in 2 weeks. šŸ˜‚ 

Love you so much, Mom and Dad. You are forever my home! ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹
My parents are moving. 😢

The last 2 weeks have been so sweet. Just soaking up time together… in their home… for the last time. 

It’s weird to see everything empty, but if there’s one thing I have learned, it is that home is where your mom and dad are! It has little to do with spaces and decor and everything to do with hearts and spirits. 

May we all create homes of love and light and warmth. ✨It travels with you wherever you have to go.✨

I’m grateful they won’t be too far away. And they are already planning to come back for a visit in 2 weeks. šŸ˜‚ 

Love you so much, Mom and Dad. You are forever my home! ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹
My parents are moving. 😢

The last 2 weeks have been so sweet. Just soaking up time together… in their home… for the last time. 

It’s weird to see everything empty, but if there’s one thing I have learned, it is that home is where your mom and dad are! It has little to do with spaces and decor and everything to do with hearts and spirits. 

May we all create homes of love and light and warmth. ✨It travels with you wherever you have to go.✨

I’m grateful they won’t be too far away. And they are already planning to come back for a visit in 2 weeks. šŸ˜‚ 

Love you so much, Mom and Dad. You are forever my home! ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹
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My parents are moving. 😢 The last 2 weeks have been so sweet. Just soaking up time together… in their home… for the last time. It’s weird to see everything empty, but if there’s one thing I have learned, it is that home is where your mom and dad are! It has little to do with spaces and decor and everything to do with hearts and spirits. May we all create homes of love and light and warmth. ✨It travels with you wherever you have to go.✨ I’m grateful they won’t be too far away. And they are already planning to come back for a visit in 2 weeks. šŸ˜‚ Love you so much, Mom and Dad. You are forever my home! ā¤ļøā€šŸ©¹
1 month ago
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I don’t always share my fries when they ask. It’s been a long time since I’ve stuck a note in their lunch boxes. I handed over a load of stinky laundry that I let sit too long before moving to the dryer for them to put away because I didn’t have the energy to rewash it. I am not the best listener when I am stressed. I sometimes cry in front of them listening to worship on the way to work because I’m desperate and needy. I fuss about the level of mess in the house almost daily. 

I am not a perfect mom. Most days I’m tired and feel like I am failing. 

But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever!

If I had to stand on one thing in motherhood it would be that I am certainly not enough, but Jesus is.  He is filling in every gap. He is meeting every need I don’t. He is working and moving in spite of me. Praise God for that amazing grace! And He loves that I keep showing up and needing Him. He loves that I seek His face always. Even when I’m being fussy and wrestling with the parts of me that are selfish and wanting.

Because God is my shepherd - I won’t be wanting. I won’t be wanting to have the perfect home or perfect circumstances. May the Lord find me wanting and hungry for more of Him in my mothering. I hope they will see that hunger more than my hunger for fries. And I pray they will learn to hunger for Him, too. 

**Only He can satisfy.**

Happy Mother’s Day, dear ones! God is enough for you! šŸ’
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I don’t always share my fries when they ask. It’s been a long time since I’ve stuck a note in their lunch boxes. I handed over a load of stinky laundry that I let sit too long before moving to the dryer for them to put away because I didn’t have the energy to rewash it. I am not the best listener when I am stressed. I sometimes cry in front of them listening to worship on the way to work because I’m desperate and needy. I fuss about the level of mess in the house almost daily. I am not a perfect mom. Most days I’m tired and feel like I am failing. But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever! If I had to stand on one thing in motherhood it would be that I am certainly not enough, but Jesus is. He is filling in every gap. He is meeting every need I don’t. He is working and moving in spite of me. Praise God for that amazing grace! And He loves that I keep showing up and needing Him. He loves that I seek His face always. Even when I’m being fussy and wrestling with the parts of me that are selfish and wanting. Because God is my shepherd - I won’t be wanting. I won’t be wanting to have the perfect home or perfect circumstances. May the Lord find me wanting and hungry for more of Him in my mothering. I hope they will see that hunger more than my hunger for fries. And I pray they will learn to hunger for Him, too. **Only He can satisfy.** Happy Mother’s Day, dear ones! God is enough for you! šŸ’
2 months ago
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Easter 2025 Thoughts >>

Been off of social media for Lent and it’s been amazing. Never underestimate the power of a good fast. There is fullness of the Lord to be had! šŸ™ŒšŸ»

This morning we woke up early for Easter service rehearsal. But one kiddo wouldn’t get out of bed, one kiddo was crying about having to wear a collared shirt, one experimented with some Easter basket goodies in the bathroom without my knowledge and there was a strange purple substance all over everything just as we really needed to get out the door, and one was dealing with an upset stomach the whole drive to church.

Meanwhile I’m yelling at everyone to JUST BE HAPPY BECAUSE JESUS IS RISEN!!!!!

I wish it hadn’t taken me this long in motherhood to learn that the chaos and mess and poop emergencies are the real stuff of life. You can wallow in the badness of it all on such a special morning, or you can remember that all the crazy is really why He came to do what He did. To offer PEACE in the chaos, JOY in the mess, a steady heart when someone’s about to have an accident in the car in their Easter outfit (that they hate anyways). 

Joy comes in the morning, friends, and joy comes in the MOMENT. He died and rose again to make sure of it.

God bless you! āœļøšŸ’šŸ™ŒšŸ»šŸ˜
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āœļøšŸ’HAPPY EASTERšŸ’āœļø Easter 2025 Thoughts >> Been off of social media for Lent and it’s been amazing. Never underestimate the power of a good fast. There is fullness of the Lord to be had! šŸ™ŒšŸ» This morning we woke up early for Easter service rehearsal. But one kiddo wouldn’t get out of bed, one kiddo was crying about having to wear a collared shirt, one experimented with some Easter basket goodies in the bathroom without my knowledge and there was a strange purple substance all over everything just as we really needed to get out the door, and one was dealing with an upset stomach the whole drive to church. Meanwhile I’m yelling at everyone to JUST BE HAPPY BECAUSE JESUS IS RISEN!!!!! I wish it hadn’t taken me this long in motherhood to learn that the chaos and mess and poop emergencies are the real stuff of life. You can wallow in the badness of it all on such a special morning, or you can remember that all the crazy is really why He came to do what He did. To offer PEACE in the chaos, JOY in the mess, a steady heart when someone’s about to have an accident in the car in their Easter outfit (that they hate anyways). Joy comes in the morning, friends, and joy comes in the MOMENT. He died and rose again to make sure of it. God bless you! āœļøšŸ’šŸ™ŒšŸ»šŸ˜
3 months ago
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Woohoo! 🄳 The kids are at Grammie’s and we went to a wedding! Got to get dressed up, see Ryan rock it as the ā€œprofessional officiantā€ (this is what the wedding coordinator called him), eat a free steak, and even dance a little! šŸ’ƒšŸ¼šŸŖ©

My favorite thing that Ryan said during the ceremony was that God made Adam wait for Eve. He paraded all the Mr. and Mrs. animals in front of him long enough until Adam’s longing matched God’s good gift. The timing was then right, Adam was ready to fully appreciate and treasure his Mrs. ā€œManā€.

To be honest, I almost didn’t attend the wedding with Ryan! I wasn’t feeling great and the idea of being home without kids all day to catch up on cleaning and laundry was pretty appealing. But the little nudge in me said DO NOT MISS THIS. I wanted to hear Ryan’s message and watch him lead this precious couple’s ceremony. I knew it was important to him that I be there. So because I treasure him, I went.

And I wasn’t the only one treasuring today! Ryan thanked me for coming with him, he danced with me even though I knew he would rather die than be on the dance floor, and he let me run into the store on the way home to end the day with some chocolate.

So here’s to treasuring one another - looking first to your spouse’s interests before your own, being their biggest fan, and telling them they look super hot in the fancy suit.

I mean, after all, he is a professional. 😁
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Woohoo! 🄳 The kids are at Grammie’s and we went to a wedding! Got to get dressed up, see Ryan rock it as the ā€œprofessional officiantā€ (this is what the wedding coordinator called him), eat a free steak, and even dance a little! šŸ’ƒšŸ¼šŸŖ© My favorite thing that Ryan said during the ceremony was that God made Adam wait for Eve. He paraded all the Mr. and Mrs. animals in front of him long enough until Adam’s longing matched God’s good gift. The timing was then right, Adam was ready to fully appreciate and treasure his Mrs. ā€œManā€. To be honest, I almost didn’t attend the wedding with Ryan! I wasn’t feeling great and the idea of being home without kids all day to catch up on cleaning and laundry was pretty appealing. But the little nudge in me said DO NOT MISS THIS. I wanted to hear Ryan’s message and watch him lead this precious couple’s ceremony. I knew it was important to him that I be there. So because I treasure him, I went. And I wasn’t the only one treasuring today! Ryan thanked me for coming with him, he danced with me even though I knew he would rather die than be on the dance floor, and he let me run into the store on the way home to end the day with some chocolate. So here’s to treasuring one another - looking first to your spouse’s interests before your own, being their biggest fan, and telling them they look super hot in the fancy suit. I mean, after all, he is a professional. 😁
5 months ago
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🄳This is 42!!!🄳 I got to sleep in, workout, take a shower, AND go grocery shopping alone all in this one day! It’s like the planets aligned! Oh wait - they actually did today! šŸ˜‚āœØšŸ™ŒšŸ»

Grateful for a precious village of friends and family (that’s you all) who remind me of what’s right and true on this journey of obedience to Jesus. One doesn’t have to sleep in, workout or have a deliciously absurd amount of sweet potato fries šŸ™‹šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ™ˆ for dinner to live life to the fullest in Christ. He is enough and He is good and I’m so thankful for another year to serve Him!

God loves you! šŸ©·ā¤ļøšŸ§”šŸ’›šŸ’ššŸ©µšŸ’™

ā€œI will bless theĀ  Lord atĀ allĀ times; his praise will always be onĀ myĀ lips.Ā I will boast inĀ theĀ  Lord;Ā the humble will hear andĀ beĀ glad.Ā Proclaim the Lord’sĀ greatness withĀ me;Ā let us exalt hisĀ nameĀ together.Ā  I sought the Lord, andĀ heĀ answeredĀ me and rescued me fromĀ all myĀ fears.Ā Those who look toĀ him areĀ radiant withĀ joy;Ā their faces will never beĀ ashamed.Ā ā€
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭34‬:‭1‬-‭5‬ ‭CSB‬‬

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🄳This is 42!!!🄳 I got to sleep in, workout, take a shower, AND go grocery shopping alone all in this one day! It’s like the planets aligned! Oh wait - they actually did today! šŸ˜‚āœØšŸ™ŒšŸ» Grateful for a precious village of friends and family (that’s you all) who remind me of what’s right and true on this journey of obedience to Jesus. One doesn’t have to sleep in, workout or have a deliciously absurd amount of sweet potato fries šŸ™‹šŸ»ā€ā™€ļøšŸ™ˆ for dinner to live life to the fullest in Christ. He is enough and He is good and I’m so thankful for another year to serve Him! God loves you! šŸ©·ā¤ļøšŸ§”šŸ’›šŸ’ššŸ©µšŸ’™ ā€œI will bless theĀ  Lord atĀ allĀ times; his praise will always be onĀ myĀ lips.Ā I will boast inĀ theĀ  Lord;Ā the humble will hear andĀ beĀ glad.Ā Proclaim the Lord’sĀ greatness withĀ me;Ā let us exalt hisĀ nameĀ together.Ā  I sought the Lord, andĀ heĀ answeredĀ me and rescued me fromĀ all myĀ fears.Ā Those who look toĀ him areĀ radiant withĀ joy;Ā their faces will never beĀ ashamed.Ā ā€ ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭34‬:‭1‬-‭5‬ ‭CSB‬‬ šŸŽ‰šŸŽ‚šŸ„³šŸŽˆšŸŽŠšŸŽšŸ¦„šŸ§šā€ā™€ļøāœØ
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