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The Grocery Store Candy Bar RAK

With all the candy floating around this time of year, I thought I would share with you a simple little RAK (Random Act of Kindness) that the Happy Buddy does every time we go to the grocery store.

I used to be a cashier for Publix stores when I was in college and let me tell you, checking groceries can get a little dull.

So we thought we’d spice things up for the person who is working so hard to scan all of our peanut butter and eggs and lots and lots of ice cream cheese and bread.

As soon as we roll into a check-out aisle, the Happy Buddy eagerly asks the cashier what his/her favorite candy bar is.

grocery store candy bar RAK 3Once they give him an answer, he swings around to the display of candy bars to locate the one that the cashier said was their top pick.

Sometimes I give him a little help, but he usually has no problem locating the standard Hershey’s bar or bag of M&Ms. 🙂

grocery store candy bar RAK 2Next he hands the candy bar to the cashier.

At this point, the cashier usually laughs and looks at me with a, “Is it okay for him to to be doing this????” face.

Then the Happy Buddy tells the cashier that we’d like to buy the candy bar for her to keep and enjoy!

I LOVE this! When you are checking out at the grocery store, have your kid ask the cashier what his/her favorite candy is. Then have them turn around to the candy display, find it, and then pay for it. Then give it to the cashier! Surprise! What a sweet Random Act of Kindness!

SURPRISE!

It’s super fun to see their reactions.

This easy idea gets your Happy Buddies thinking of others and you get to cheer someone up with a little sugar.

Although it adds an extra 97 cents to our weekly food budget, we think that the pay off is worth more than a 100 Grand.

🙂

Happy Candy Bar RAK-ing!

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Julie Brasington is a Preschool Director, wife of a South Florida Worship Pastor and mom of 3 boys. She writes at Happy Home Fairy where you can find easy craft ideas, FREE printables, simple recipes, holiday fun, thoughts on raising kids, and encouragement for moms.

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  1. MaryEllen Mattern

    October 18, 2013 at 10:24 pm

    God bless you!

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  2. i have no greater joy

    October 18, 2013 at 10:24 pm

    What a great idea! I love that it gets the kids involved! So sweet! I’ve also heard of paying for the food of the customer in line behind you in the drive thru. I’ve only done it once. Your plan is super!

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  3. Jen

    October 18, 2013 at 11:00 pm

    So sweet! You are teaching your son amazing things! Hey… My youngest daughter is 3… Maybe we can do an arranged marriage! Haha:) great idea/ lesson/living proof of a loving God 🙂

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  4. Paige

    October 19, 2013 at 12:24 am

    Happy Home Fairy. You are the BOMB!!!!!

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  5. Sallie Needham

    October 19, 2013 at 2:24 am

    My husband and I do something similar. When we see a cashier or waitress, we ask ” is there anything we can pray about for you?” Talk about blessing us! And they are nearly always very grateful.

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  6. FRANCES

    October 19, 2013 at 10:22 am

    Next grocery store visit, we will try this. Praying we don’t get a diabetic cashier. 🙂

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  7. Nicole

    October 19, 2013 at 10:58 am

    I love this idea!! I have a 4 year old daughter (and a baby, too!), and she will love this!!! I have been following you for a year or so, and I love your blog. I always mentally reply in my head but have never actually commented. I have followed a lot of blogs over the last few years, but yours is definitely a favorite. Probaby my most favorite! I love the ideas and the REAL LIFE-ness of your blog. My 4 year old is not a “textbook” kid, and I struggle with watching my friends parent their kids, and they make it look easy. I love how honest you are about struggling sometimes. Thank you for feeling like a friend, even if I don’t technically know you. 😉

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  8. veronicakoz

    October 19, 2013 at 11:45 pm

    This is such a fun idea! Cayden will LOVE it… thanks for sharing!

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  9. Candy

    October 21, 2013 at 8:28 am

    I will definitely be doing this with my little ones. What a great idea!

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  10. Jamy

    November 25, 2013 at 2:04 am

    Found you from a Christmas craft on Pinterest and I’m hooked! Love love love your stuff! For my 30th birthday, me and my kids did a whole day of RAOK and this is one I had my son do. It was so fun! I even had a lady stop me outside the store and tell me how thoughtful that was of him. I hope they can remember that and we can do it more often!

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Someone made me an “after-birth basket” when I had my last baby, and I still remember how loved and cared for it made me feel. So now I love doing the same for other new mamas. 🥹

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But my FAVORITE part? 🥹 A printed and framed photo of their brand-new family with the new baby. 🤍

Because in a season when so much attention (rightfully!) goes to that precious new little one, sometimes mama needs a little reminder:

We see you, too. We’re celebrating you, too! Here are some diapers for you, too. 😂

Such a simple gift. Such a sweet way to love on a new mom! 🩷🩵🩷

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Everyone brings something for the baby… but don’t forget about the mama! 🤍 Someone made me an “after-birth basket” when I had my last baby, and I still remember how loved and cared for it made me feel. So now I love doing the same for other new mamas. 🥹 A few favorite snacks, a magazine, a cute hair clip, pads for postpartum bleeding + nursing, lip oil, a fun drink… just little things to make those first days at home a tiny bit more comfortable. But my FAVORITE part? 🥹 A printed and framed photo of their brand-new family with the new baby. 🤍 Because in a season when so much attention (rightfully!) goes to that precious new little one, sometimes mama needs a little reminder: We see you, too. We’re celebrating you, too! Here are some diapers for you, too. 😂 Such a simple gift. Such a sweet way to love on a new mom! 🩷🩵🩷 #AfterBirthBasket #PostpartumCare #NewMomGift #NewMama #PostpartumSupport
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The Queen was welcomed to Heaven today. ❤️‍🩹

There are no words to adequately express what earth lost this morning. She was selfless, loving, kind, fun, glamorous, hard-working, positive, faithful, and so strong - right up to the end. 🤍

I grieve not being able to hear the sound of delight in her voice when we talked. She always called me her little Songbird. Her laugh was like tinkling bells. She taught me so much about loving God and loving others and living in quiet, faithful excellence for His glory. 🙌🏻

I’m just so thankful that her legacy lives on in my own mom and her 5 siblings and their families! Truly one of a kind people, living for God, faithfully and in His strength, day in and day out. 💛

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The Queen was welcomed to Heaven today. ❤️‍🩹 There are no words to adequately express what earth lost this morning. She was selfless, loving, kind, fun, glamorous, hard-working, positive, faithful, and so strong - right up to the end. 🤍 I grieve not being able to hear the sound of delight in her voice when we talked. She always called me her little Songbird. Her laugh was like tinkling bells. She taught me so much about loving God and loving others and living in quiet, faithful excellence for His glory. 🙌🏻 I’m just so thankful that her legacy lives on in my own mom and her 5 siblings and their families! Truly one of a kind people, living for God, faithfully and in His strength, day in and day out. 💛 Mom-Mom! I love you so much. I will miss you so much. I can’t wait to see you again. 🕊️ “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his faithful servants.” ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭116‬:‭15‬ ‭NIV‬‬
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Summer no’s >>

🔕Wake up alarms
🚫Stress
🔥Hair tools

Summer yes-es! >>

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🚮Purge the house

…and then drive around with donations in my car until next summer! 😆

Summer, please don’t ever end! 🫶🏻
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Summer no’s >> 🔕Wake up alarms 🚫Stress 🔥Hair tools Summer yes-es! >> ☀️Tanned skin 💜Time with family 🚮Purge the house …and then drive around with donations in my car until next summer! 😆 Summer, please don’t ever end! 🫶🏻
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🌴 I love palm trees. 🌴 

They don’t break in storms - they bend *with* the storm. ⛈️ (John 16:33)

They stay green all year round. 💚 (Psalm 92:14)

They grow best when it’s hot. ☀️ (Jeremiah 17:8)

They produce good fruit to be a blessing to others. 🥥 (Galatians 5:22-23)

They point straight up to heaven, reminding us of the goal. ⬆️ (Philippians 3:20)

Their branches are symbolic of victory. 🌿 (John 12, Revelation 7)

Go and be like a palm tree today! 🏝️🙌🏻🤩

“The righteous will flourish like the palm tree…” Psalm 92:12
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🌴 I love palm trees. 🌴 They don’t break in storms - they bend *with* the storm. ⛈️ (John 16:33) They stay green all year round. 💚 (Psalm 92:14) They grow best when it’s hot. ☀️ (Jeremiah 17:8) They produce good fruit to be a blessing to others. 🥥 (Galatians 5:22-23) They point straight up to heaven, reminding us of the goal. ⬆️ (Philippians 3:20) Their branches are symbolic of victory. 🌿 (John 12, Revelation 7) Go and be like a palm tree today! 🏝️🙌🏻🤩 “The righteous will flourish like the palm tree…” Psalm 92:12
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☀️Annual happy place week!☀️

The boys are trying to shoot me with water guns while I sit by the pool. The moon is a sweet bright spot in the night sky. A couple just rode by on the Broadwalk with music and extravagant lights on their bikes. The wind is gently moving the palm tree branches. Zion has a case of late night giggles. Noah is eating 3 scoops of ice cream from the Ben and Jerry’s shop and I am wishing this night will never end!

Thank you for another magical week, Hollywood. 🫶🏻 We will be counting down the days until next year!

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☀️Annual happy place week!☀️ The boys are trying to shoot me with water guns while I sit by the pool. The moon is a sweet bright spot in the night sky. A couple just rode by on the Broadwalk with music and extravagant lights on their bikes. The wind is gently moving the palm tree branches. Zion has a case of late night giggles. Noah is eating 3 scoops of ice cream from the Ben and Jerry’s shop and I am wishing this night will never end! Thank you for another magical week, Hollywood. 🫶🏻 We will be counting down the days until next year! 🌴☀️💕🌴☀️💕🌴☀️💕🌴
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One of these amazing boys made me a thoughtful card and gave me a small box of chocolates.

One of these amazing boys made me a special edition of his homemade comic strips in honor of Mother’s Day.

And one of these amazing boys patted my stomach during the sermon at church and whispered, “I think there’s a baby in there.”

😂🫠😂🫠😂

Happy Mother’s Day! 

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One of these amazing boys made me a thoughtful card and gave me a small box of chocolates. One of these amazing boys made me a special edition of his homemade comic strips in honor of Mother’s Day. And one of these amazing boys patted my stomach during the sermon at church and whispered, “I think there’s a baby in there.” 😂🫠😂🫠😂 Happy Mother’s Day! 💕🫶🏻🌷💕🫶🏻🌷
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