So I am not going to lie, my firstborn is kind of an emotional roller coaster.
One second he is frolicking around the house singing worship songs, the next second he is flat out on the ground weeping that I forgot to call him by the name of his alter ego.
Or he’s flipping out because he can’t get his arms through the shirt holes.
Or he found out that I am serving strawberries with his beloved Saturday morning pancakes and now the. whole. day. is. ruined.
I’ve seen this idea around so many blogs and thought we would give it a try.
The idea is to make this Calm Down Glitter Jar, shake it up, and hand it to your Happy Buddy when he is having a meltdown feeling emotionally troubled.
You want to get your Happy Buddies so distracted by looking at all the pretty, swirling glitter that they forget what they were fussing about.
Genius, right?
I mean, glitter therapy?! Yes, please.
Here is how to make one…
Clear jar (I used an old jar that used to have mushrooms in it)
CLEAR Elmer’s Glue (it is SO important that you buy the clear stuff and not the white stuff or else it will be milky. Also, I hear the Elmer’s glitter glue works absolutely beautiful.)
HOT water (this helps the glue melt)
Ultra fine glitter (the finer the better – mine came from a Michael’s Arts and Crafts store)
You will also need a little hot glue (not pictured here because my glue gun looks like someone ran over it with a bulldozer and then threw some mud on it).
Step 1 – Fill your jar with HOT water and then pour some glue into the water.
I probably used about 1/4 of the bottle of glue. The more glue you put it in, the slower the glitter will move.
Step 2 – Pour the glitter in and mix it around (I mixed mine using one of our table knives). I literally dumped almost the entire vial of glitter into my jar.
You seriously can’t go wrong on this step.
Add more glue if you want. You kind of just need to play with it until you see the glitter moving the way you want it to. If you pour in too much glue, then your Happy Buddy will be waiting and staring at the jar for an unbelievably long time.
Mine settles after about 5 minutes.
Step 3 – Hot glue the lid to the jar so that you don’t have any accidents.
Speaking of accidents, if you are using a glass jar, may I suggest not thrusting it into the hands of a child who is so angry he just might hurl the thing across the room.
🙂
The idea is to quietly embrace an emotional little friend and engage them with the jar before leaving them alone to calm down (hopefully entranced and not irrational).
That’s it!
And I will let you in on a little secret – It works great on stressed out Happy Hubbies, too. 😉
Happy Calm Down Glitter Jar-ing!
Sabrina
THAT’S THE ANSWER TO MY PROBLEMS….I guess I’ll have to make 3!!! {One for each of my kids!!! lol}, Thanks for the detailed instructions. I’m going to Michael’s now!
Heather Mathews
Kennedy would throw it and break it!
Heather Mathews
Sharron Paris
I am sure that there are some plastic jars that would also work if you are worried about the glass. You could make these out of just about any container with a lid that could be secured.
noeylaurie
I would love to know how it works! I made one from one of those tall thin smart bottles for my classroom…but I’ve never really used it for discipline…but they do love to watch it-and we’ve used it as a timer for reading time 🙂
McCollonough
Wow! I love this! I am going to make one for my four year old niece!! Thanks for posting such detailed instructions.
Frances
Must. Try. Now. 😉
trixiejo302
I think I need to make one of these for me; you know, for those moments when I want to go play in traffic on the freeway. LOL. Great idea!
Amanda
My son was so excited about these (we call it the timeout tube) he made one for dad, nana, and his aunt and uncle.
HappinessOnTheInside
Amazing! Thanks for sharing! I will be making this soon, very soon.
Jenny Wilson
We talked about doing this as a MOPS craft this year! One of our moms saw it on Pinterest. Looks cute!
Beth Denison
So do you make this in advance? And it is a continual thing for them to look at or while the child is having a meltdown you go calmly and make one to these? lol
Jody Caughey
Could you use water bottles for this??
Happy Home Fairy
Jody, I would imagine so!
cnguyen7899
can i leave some air in the jar? or do i have to fill it with water all the way?
Rhonda Crawford
I found plastic bottles at Hobby Lobby that are perfect for this. I am making them for my Sunday School class when there is a need for a chill out time. Thanks for sharing the info!
PaperGiftsForEstefany
Haha I love it! : )
Raising happy children
Thank you so much for this idea! I remember reading your blog when my son was only a few months old and thinking I needed to remember this – have just bought everything I needed to try it, so we’re definitely making our little calm down glitter jar! Not that my son needs calming down, but I’m sure he’ll love making it and it will be ready should we ever need it 🙂
melissa
My buddy just said he would keep his FOREVER and loves it 🙂 🙂