Mother’s Day…
It’s one of those days (kind of similar to Valentine’s Day) where we women heap all kinds of expectations of storybook romance on our precious husbands and then when those expectations aren’t met, we fall into a heap of despair.
Some of us have husbands that are great at intuiting our deepest wants and desires. These special days begin with breakfast in bed, followed by rose petal trails, ending with horse drawn carriage rides and original love poems.
But the reality is that most of us are not married to natural romantics.
The Happy Hubby is amazing. He is such a wonderful provider, leader, father/husband, etc., etc. When it comes to these holidays, though, he simply doesn’t know what to do. And I don’t really help him out – instead, I just sort of hope he will figure it out. I mean, we’ve been married for 10 years – doesn’t he know what I would like?
This thinking, sweet friends, usually does not end well for any of us.
My man’s heart is precious – he wants to bless me, but all of my unspoken and unrealistic expectations would make any man freeze under the pressure.
So, this year, let’s give our men the gift of knowledge.
Let’s tell them exactly what we’d like for Mother’s Day.
Good news is I’ve made it REALLY easy for you.
Simply print the FREE Printable letter (download at bottom of post), fill out, and deliver to your man.
The two of you are sure to get a good giggle out of this silly note, but hopefully, come Mother’s Day, it will help you feel appreciated and him feel satisfied that he was able to bless you the way he wanted to but didn’t know how.
Girls, this FREE Printable comes with 1 important disclaimer…
*DISCLAIMER* – EXPECT NOTHING. Even though (if) you are giving your Happy Hubby this letter, hold it before the Lord with open hands. Your Happy Hubby may read the letter and have wonderful intentions, but then STILL forget about Mother’s Day or simply not act as you hoped. I don’t want anyone’s marriages falling apart this Mother’s Day because of unmet ‘checkboxes.’ Got it?! 🙂 Plus, there are always those unexpected moments of motherhood where everyone ends up with the stomach flu on Mother’s Day or something and the whole day is a wash. This requires faith on our part as daughters of the King. We must lay our expectations at the foot of Jesus and find our ultimate satisfaction in Him alone. 🙂
Just wanted to hang mine in a place I know he wouldn’t miss. Ha!
OKAY.
Now for your FREE Mother’s Day Printable to help the hubs out.
Click HERE.
If I could, I’d give Tiffany diamonds to each and every one of you. Y’all are the best Mommies {and readers} EVER.
Happy Mother’s Day FREE Printable-ing! 🙂
Cathy Compeau
This is awesome!
I would love for you to share this and link up to my TGIF Link Party! Who knows, you just might be featured next week!
http://apeekintomyparadise.blogspot.com/2013/05/a-peek-into-my-paradise-tgif-link-party.html
Cathy
5happyhouse
LOVE LOVE LOVE this!!! Pinning and Sharing 🙂
SJ Neal
BEST…PRINTABLE…EVER!!! Thanks so much for making this Mother’s Day tear-free in this house…yes HIS tears, not mine! 🙂
Kelly
My husband loves this and said he hopes I give him this every year! Thanks for all your great ideas
Lisa Watterson
Used it…. LOVED IT….. My husband said he really liked the checklist, because he knew exactly what I wanted for Mother’s Day. And I have to say, it was probably my BEST Mother’s Day ever (after being a mom for 17 years now)!!
Now for some shameless begging. Would you PLEASE do one for Father’s Day??? I am terrible at creating cute things like this, and could maybe do one that looked half as good if I worked hard at it for several days. I’m sure others would love to see a Father’s Day version of it as well, though. So…. pretty pretty please?
Jen
I clicked and it’s an unfound link. Can you make it available again? I just found your blog and LOVE it ALL!
Thanks!
Happy Home Fairy
Jen, let me see what I can do – thank you for letting me know!!
Happy Home Fairy
It’s all fixed! YAY! I hope it blesses you! 🙂